Being Bad To The Bone

In earlier years of my life till the present I have almost every day have been mean to someone. If I am in a bad mood I'll react on someone in a way i thought was nothing. I have been acusing my dad about things i have know ideal what is really going on thru his head or his life. We'd argue about the most stupid things, about money, girls, and even stupid science fiction. I would hide things from him and be agressive towards him. The reason someone acts mean upon a person is to test their ability to respond to what they want to hear. When someone is mean or ignorant towards someone for no reason or not meaning to its not as bad as when that person tells you its all about responds. My girlfriend and I have been argueing for quite a while now and she is no longer that title not because i choosed but she has. She told me i have been neglecting her and being mean i had no clue i was so oblivous to all she has done, and yet how i have been mean to her she has reacted in the same way but with uncaring anger. This is to show me how i have been treating her but this is done on propose to show me a lesson. To be angry at someone is ok if the have treated you with disrespect. One law of life i have learned and have engraved to my brain is never be mean unless theres a reason especialy if its to the one you love.